self care

Three Emotional Boundaries You Can Set Today

You likely know what a boundary is. Chances are, you are even a little familiar (if not a lot familiar) with setting them. Are you aware, though, of the benefits of boundaries? Just a few include: Building self-esteem Establishing or re-establishing your values and beliefs Preventing burnout at work or in relationships Maintaining autonomy Having a clear identity Higher level of mental health / mental wellness From this list, it’s clear that setting boundaries has a variety of benefits. Setting boundaries especially helps us to establish and maintain our identity. They serve to say “this is something I will or will not do,” and our enforcement of our boundaries makes it clear where our values lie.   There are a variety of boundary categories. There are physical boundaries, which are those parameters around our body and our space. There are time boundaries, which are rules we place around our energy and day....

How to Both Like and Love Yourself

In 2022, self-care and self-love have been big buzzwords. You may be tempted to write them both off as the newest wellness fad and not give too much thought to them. However, self-love is no fad - increasing your self-love has a huge impact on your mental health!   Low self-esteem has been linked with a myriad of negatives - for example, addictions, depression, anxiety, and a lack of quality relationships can be correlated to low self-esteem. On the other hand, high self-esteem allows us to cultivate confidence, be realistic with ourselves, be more resilient, and be more assertive.   It’s clear that self-love is beneficial to us. Now, how can you cultivate self-love? Try out these 10 journal prompts from Straight Up Treatment to increase your self-love today!   1. Make a list of all of your expectations for yourself. This may include your role as a child, parent, employee, boss, student, spouse … the...